Life is a precious gift - a gift we often take for granted until it is threatened. - LeCrae You don’t really know how much you love someone or how much you can’t stand them until you’re locked down with them 24/7 for weeks on end. Everything in life can be viewed as a blessing or a curse. You decide. I’m used to having a partner who has a mission. He’s always on the go. [...]
“Do not swear by the moon, for she changes constantly. then your love would also change.” ― William Shakespeare, Romeo and Juliet One of Shakespeare’s famous lines from Romeo and Juliet goes like this, “Did my heart ever love till now? Forswear it sight, for I ne’er saw true beauty till this night”. Let’s be honest here. Romeo was like fifteen years old and don't forget he was supposedly in love with Rosaline the day [...]
“Never despair, keep pushing on!” -Sir Thomas Lipton There are some ways to stay sane while dating. I'm not saying it's always fun or easy or won't suck at times. But, don't let the bad experiences cloud your judgment. Here are at least five ways to stay sane while internet dating. Dating Sucks, Let's be Honest Dating. Don’t you just hate it? Why doesn’t Mr. Right just show up at your door with flowers and [...]
"Cheating is a Choice, Not a Mistake" - Unknown Are you having an affair and struggling with whether you should stay in or get out? Are you contemplating having one or think it might solve all your problems? If so, you might want to think twice, and I’ll tell you why. One of my favorite sayings (apparently, I have a lot of favorite sayings) is “If they’ll do it with you they’ll do it to [...]
"If you look for perfection, you'll never be content." - Leo Tolstoy Do you know the most powerful way to save your relationship? Do you think you're being unrealistic with your expectations in your relationship or do you think you're right and your partner is wrong? Do you think you expect too much or your partner just isn't doing enough? Do you think you do all the work and they do nothing? I’ve learned a [...]
"How people treat you is their karma; how you react is yours." - Wayne Dyer Sometimes you’re confused about whether you should stay in your relationship or whether you should go. What if you still love them, but you aren’t happy? What if you wake up every day wondering if its you or them or the relationship? What if you start to pick apart every little thing they do or don’t do or you're always [...]
"For true love is inexhaustible; the more you give, the more you have. And if you go to draw at the true fountainhead, the more water you draw, the more abundant is its flow." Antoine de Saint-Exupery I used to think that true love meant a guy listen who would listen to me all the time and shared my deepest darkest thoughts anytime, all the time. I used to think it was a guy [...]
"Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option." - Mark Twain Some days I wonder, how many times can you give your heart away without return before it breaks for good? How many times can you feel like you give of yourself and get nothing back? How many days can someone feel ignored and pushed away before they go away for good? How many days can someone try to [...]
I must admit, there was a time when I was questioning my relationship and I thought of leaving so I read this book entitled Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay. Honestly, I believe the author did a very thorough job, gave great examples to support her positions and overall wrote a really helpful book. So many of us are faced with the dilemma of whether to leave a relationship or not. Sometimes you [...]
“The desire to love someone always exceeds the desire to be loved by someone & that's exactly why we end up loving the person who doesn't deserve that LOVE.”― Anirban Bose, Bombay Rains, Bombay Girls Can we have a little girl talk for a minute? Can we talk about the reality of having an affair and being a mistress? Can we talk about the truth of what's going on and how its affecting you and [...]
