"Cheating is a Choice, Not a Mistake" - Unknown Are you having an affair and struggling with whether you should stay in or get out? Are you contemplating having one or think it might solve all your problems? If so, you might want to think twice, and I’ll tell you why. One of my favorite sayings (apparently, I have a lot of favorite sayings) is “If they’ll do it with you they’ll do it to [...]
“The desire to love someone always exceeds the desire to be loved by someone & that's exactly why we end up loving the person who doesn't deserve that LOVE.”― Anirban Bose, Bombay Rains, Bombay Girls Can we have a little girl talk for a minute? Can we talk about the reality of having an affair and being a mistress? Can we talk about the truth of what's going on and how its affecting you and [...]
"The more people rationalize cheating, the more it becomes a culture of dishonesty." - Stephen Covey Do you want to know if you should leave your cheating husband or boyfriend? A lot of women come to me asking if they should forgive their cheating husband or boyfriend. They want to know how to get past the betrayal and fix the relationship. It amazes me that they want to know what they can do to make [...]
"All good is hard. All evil is easy. Dying, losing, cheating, and mediocrity is easy. Stay away from easy." - Scott Alexander There is a misconception that men cheat for sex. Men do not cheat for sex. Men cheat for the same reason that women cheat. They want to feel desired and appreciated. A man's need for appreciation manifests itself differently than ours. Women want to feel understood. Men want to feel desired. Women want [...]
"A lover always thinks of his mistress first and himself second; with a husband it runs the other way." - Honore de Balzac Are you a mistress? Have you been a mistress? If so, I'm going to give you ten empowering reasons to avoid being a mistress at all costs. First, let me ask you this. If you have a daughter, or a best friend and she told you she met the love of her [...]
